Why you might not want to refer to it as "trying"

January 9, 2015

 

Hello lovelies! I hope you enjoyed your New Year's and have maybe been thinking about things you want to purge from your space or from your mind!
As we're starting this new year and directing our attention toward what we're wanting versus what we don't; there's a little sneaky thing that our brains like to do that I like to call sabotage for survival. Many of you have heard me mention that the brain's main function is to keep us alive. And that's where the ego lives. It wants to stay alive. And when you go doing something crazy like wanting to get pregnant or change careers your brain is like "Whoa! whoa! whoa! calm down! You don't know you can survive doing that!" And it throws all kinds of scary scenarios at you that actually are not true. But they're scary enough that it can shut down the functioning of the lady parts and bully you into not going after your dream because it's safer this way. As humans, we tend to focus on the problem and not the solution. So I invite you to focus on what would be awesome, vs what scares the hell out of you.  In terms of the Law of Attraction, whatever energy you're putting out, the Universe has no choice but to answer with like energy. So if you're putting out "i'm not good at getting pregnant, why hasn't it happened yet, it's never going to happen"; the Universe has to respond with "You're not good at it, because it hasn't, and you're right it's not". But if we're putting out "It's gonna be awesome when I see the positive sign on that stick, and I'm going to be such a great mom"- not only does that take WAY less energy than the above, but the Universe has no choice but to answer with the like energy of "Here's the positive test, and yes you are". For those of you who feel that's over simplified I totally get it. The difference with what many of you have been doing and what I'm saying here is "I really want to be a mom so bad. I hope I get to be a mom" (attached to the result and therefore Universe responds with the lack). Versus: " I know I'm meant to be a mom and I will be. I'm healthy and I have to much to offer a child, it's going to be awesome when..." There's a HUGE difference in the energy. The words are similar but you can't fool the Universe with your energy. So your challenge this month is to just NOTICE your energy- don't jump into fix mode, but just notice. When we say "We've been trying for 2 years", we are attracting more trying. We're taught that the harder you work, the better the results; but energetically that's not how it works. It's actually: The harder you try, the harder you try. So notice how you might be able to spin that to a positive, excited place. Where you're putting your energy matters. So let's use it for GOOD!
As always if you'd like to book your 20 minute comp or single session to see more about what this work is about, click below. I am full for January, but have 2 spots open for February.
And to those of you who are working with me already- you are rockstars and I am inspired daily by all of you.
KNOW that you can do this. Lots of love!

Why you might not want to refer to it as "trying".

Hello lovelies! I hope you enjoyed your New Year's and have maybe been thinking about things you want to purge from your space or from your mind!
As we're starting this new year and directing our attention toward what we're wanting versus what we don't; there's a little sneaky thing that our brains like to do that I like to call sabotage for survival. Many of you have heard me mention that the brain's main function is to keep us alive. And that's where the ego lives. It wants to stay alive. And when you go doing something crazy like wanting to get pregnant or change careers your brain is like "Whoa! whoa! whoa! calm down! You don't know you can survive doing that!" And it throws all kinds of scary scenarios at you that actually are not true. But they're scary enough that it can shut down the functioning of the lady parts and bully you into not going after your dream because it's safer this way. As humans, we tend to focus on the problem and not the solution. So I invite you to focus on what would be awesome, vs what scares the hell out of you.  In terms of the Law of Attraction, whatever energy you're putting out, the Universe has no choice but to answer with like energy. So if you're putting out "i'm not good at getting pregnant, why hasn't it happened yet, it's never going to happen"; the Universe has to respond with "You're not good at it, because it hasn't, and you're right it's not". But if we're putting out "It's gonna be awesome when I see the positive sign on that stick, and I'm going to be such a great mom"- not only does that take WAY less energy than the above, but the Universe has no choice but to answer with the like energy of "Here's the positive test, and yes you are". For those of you who feel that's over simplified I totally get it. The difference with what many of you have been doing and what I'm saying here is "I really want to be a mom so bad. I hope I get to be a mom" (attached to the result and therefore Universe responds with the lack). Versus: " I know I'm meant to be a mom and I will be. I'm healthy and I have to much to offer a child, it's going to be awesome when..." There's a HUGE difference in the energy. The words are similar but you can't fool the Universe with your energy. So your challenge this month is to just NOTICE your energy- don't jump into fix mode, but just notice. When we say "We've been trying for 2 years", we are attracting more trying. We're taught that the harder you work, the better the results; but energetically that's not how it works. It's actually: The harder you try, the harder you try. So notice how you might be able to spin that to a positive, excited place. Where you're putting your energy matters. So let's use it for GOOD!
As always if you'd like to book your 20 minute comp or single session to see more about what this work is about, click below. I am full for January, but have 2 spots open for February.
And to those of you who are working with me already- you are rockstars and I am inspired daily by all of you.
KNOW that you can do this. Lots of love!

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